Frequently Asked Questions
Do you sell The Rabbit?
Yes! Contrary to popular belief, “The Rabbit” is not a brand name but rather any style of vibrator that has dual vaginal and bunny ear clitoral stimulators. We currently carry 3 models, one that spins, one that waves, and one with a g-spot stimulator, and we plan on adding more to the collection soon!
What made you want to open a sex shop?
I always wanted to talk to people about sex, so I decided to open a “sex center” where I could teach classes on sexuality and relationships, and educate the public while also providing a means of entertainment (this model became our parties and workshops). The accompanying toys, lubricants, and lingerie was a logical next step, and gave me an opportunity to offer these products in an environment that isn’t dark, seedy, or objectifying of women.
What is a sexologist/how do you become a sexologist?
Sexology is the scientific study of human sexuality and interpersonal relationships.Sexologists work as researchers, advocates, counselors, therapists, andneducators and come from backgrounds in psychology, social work, women’s studies, sociology, and medicine.
I became a sexologist through a uniquely direct root of study. I received a Bachelor’s degree in Sexuality, Marriage, and Family from the University of Waterloo in 2007 and I expect to graduate in 2013 with a Masters of Education degree and Ph.D. in Human Sexuality from Widener University.
Is it true that a Church took you to court?
St. Agnes Church did try to take me to court in an attempt to shut the shop down, but they dropped it two days after the story hit the press and outraged community members signed my petition to stay open. Read a news article about it here.
I'm currently writing a book about the experience. Stay tuned to the expected release date by joining our e-newsletter
I'm interested in doing a party, but I'm a little nervous and shy.
That's totally understandable because sex is usually not something most people talk about candidly. Most party guests are pleasantly surprised because it's not a typical sex toy party by any means. I think you will find it is a perfect combination of hilareous entertainment, a welcoming comfortable environment, great honest advice, and an immeasurable, empowering bonding experience with your friends. Read what other nervous people said about it here.
What do your parents think of what you do?
My family and friends are my biggest cheerleaders! They have always fully supported my sex education endeavors. They even helped me paint and decorate the shop when I was opening and gave interviews to the newspapers in my defense when I was facing the legal battle!
You use the phrase "sex-positive" a lot. What exactly does that mean?
Sex-positivity is the notion that expressing sexuality is not only an important part of overall health, but should be exalted and celebrated. It does not conform to the largely Western held belief that sex is a destructive force and pleasure is sinful. Under this philosophy, no consentual sex acts are wrong, everyone should be respected, and there is no such thing as "dirty".
I live too far away to visit. Can I order online?
I’d love to meet you, but if you can’t visit us in person you can still shop.Just click here.
Your sign always makes me laugh when I walk by. Where do you get the slogan
ideas?
I started writing tongue-in-cheek slogans on the sign outside during the church controversy to show I was holding my ground. I tried to come up with things that would only sound sexual if you understood the cultural reference. Some are twists on popular songs or quotes. After passersby started asking for more, I had a brainstorming session with my dad and we came up withover 50 additionalslogans. We turned some into t-shirts. Fan favorites include:
Our bullets don’t kill people. Make love not war.
Are you master of your domain? If not, stop in!
SEX: It’s not a dirty word. (#$%* is though so don’t use that one)
Wednesday is HUMP day. ‘Nuff said
Warning: Viewing our lingerie may corrupt your morals. Enter at your own risk.
Batteries are cheaper than gas. Have fun at home.
You’ll never look at a carrot the same way again.
‘Cause I’ve got one hand in my pocket, and the other one is…
Does size matter? Our products measure up!
In here, it’s good to be wet. 10% off lube or rainy days
If you’re ashamed, you’re not doing it right
Feminique Boutique sounds like a super fun place to work! Are you hiring?
It is an unbelievably fun and rewarding job, but unfortunately we are not hiring at this time.
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